Also with some women I have a great attraction but is not always about sex, but companionship, frienship. Scorpio sun signs are born from October 23November 21, right between Libra and Sagittarius. There is no one to compare with the Scorpio man. Help he is turturing me with mind and body. Or a few months. Though they love to be loved, theyd prefer the comfort of knowing they arent going to get hurt over the fear of being vulnerable any day. But about the roller coaster deals we will always love u and sometimes we don't mean to hurt your feelings. But I am telling you.. this morning when we went to my office he is very sweet. I've dated other Scorpios before and they were all super cool in the beginning and then they became mean afterwards so it wasn't hard for me to let go of them. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice He did special prayers and used his power Within 7 days my husband called me and he said he was sorry for all the emotional pains he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily and our child is happy too. Youre afraid youre not good enough for them. My brother is a scorp, a close friend is, I have it as my rising sign, so I catch ,myself holding many of these qualities as well. I'm too am a Scorpio. 1. Sagittarius woman with Scorpio man on May 25, 2018: We met and he was proposing after 2 weeks asking me if I would meet his family and friends - I have not had good experiences in love and was a little cautious but eventually his attention, compassion, patience and wonderful personality won me over. I need Dr. He waited till Wednesday and texted 'Hey' I didn't text back I knew something was wrong and I was upset aswell. @Sho - their is no possible chance of getting him back. A Scorpio does want to be with you, however when something lays heavily on their minds, or they are feeling emotionally overwhelmed, they need space. To everyone out there firstly, although I personally love my sunsign and I do think people possess certain core characteristics based on their sunsigns , you have to acknowledge the fact that every individual is complex and not binary ( I.e. Why The Scorpio Man Pulls Away. It was a little confusing but I don't take what people say to heart. We could stare into eachothers eyes and read each other maybe too well. Be strong and dont let him control you. I tried to talk to him and I told him that I was asleepI thought he would have realized that I've never ever ignored himhe knows I would never do that. I'm not guaranteeing it will change, though. Remember, your partner's sun sign is never an excuse for abusive behavior. how dos one know if he is really interested in you.. he barely talks, I am from United Kingdom England, I just want to share my experience with the world on how Dr Mack, help me, and got my love back and saved my marriage I was married for 3 years with a child and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and argued almost every time it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and dont want to lose him but everything just didn't work out he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. i have told him early tht i'm looking more than just sex, but he said he prefers to go with the flow. do I just go along with however he's feeling? Geminis are (ironically) the most straightforward when it comes to subconsciously pushing people away its usually just that they fear the pain of losing a friendship or a partner, and when that fear starts to overshadow them, they push people away. We met at a party, hooked up and then hung out like twice. Does he seem intensely interested in you and your plansalmost coming off as a bit of a stalkerbut only to go off the grid completely before once again coming onto you as strongly as before? I love his jealous & possessiveness alot . They hone in on a project and become very obsessed. & i saw him posts in other social app . In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. So, I got so pissed because I was very hurt, thinking he didn't care about me and my feelings to let me know and make sure I'm ok. Of course I understand he was sick and needed to take care of himself but my problem was that he didn't tell me until he was already leaving. Despite seeming to want to push you away, Scorpio is trying to get your attention with this behavior. A delay in work from your colleague may push you to an edge and the rest of the day is going to be in your control. Is this a characteristic or is he playing games with me :(. They arent wrong in this assumption the people you spend your time with have an irrevocable impact on your quality of life, and sometimes ensuring that you only keep the right ones around is essential. I live in Wisconsin. I really wish u all well ladies and hope I helped a tad. This is one of the ways a Scorpio man will act when no longer interested. If you hurt us, we will hold a grudge and let it build until we explode. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. 6. we dont live in the same roof but always exerting effort to see me even if he is not feeling well. But then I apologized and he responded that he needed to think about all this and take a time out for that, so he thought about it for 3-4 days, then he called me and I didn't respond and he left a voicemail saying that we shouldn't see each other anymore. I lost my mind. Nasty comments like " my family comes first " " I can't be with you as I have people around me ". I hate arguments and confrontations and i always try my hardest for my partner to undertsand him better and not hurt his feelings but he is confrontational type and arguments exhaust me. They want you to pour out your heart and you literally have to pry things out of them. If you want to know your weaknesses and vulnerabilities ask a Scorpio, they will tell you if they know you, or not. Work life will be fine. I am completely shocked by all of the responses. One of the clearest indications that a Scorpio man is lying is when he cannot look you straight in the eyes. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 25, 2012: Thank you for your comments, angel115707! Cancers push people away when they are intimidated by the strength of their feelings for them. Make sure you're keeping up with your friends, your hobbies, and your career, and let him do the same. Though they are good at being social, a Scorpio would much rather have a deep conversation with people who pique their interest. I don't know why he begs to be with me then leaves. I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. What should I be doing when he is acting cold? I KNOW that he loves me - he told me he did two days ago in a phone call and then he didn't respond to my three texts today and I do that damn scales balancing act thing that I hate so much. The disadvantage in this relationship is that both are intense and are too much alike. What should I do? Remember there arent only 12 kinds of people in this world !! Certainly, you should be remorseful for intentionally hurting someone you love. He is working independently, so he is working lots, busy with his Music Needs and is living one Hour away from me, living with somebody together. So I have dated a scorpio several years ago, we reconnected. The guy I like is a Scorpio. Oct. 20, 2022, 7:24 AM PDT. How much i showed my love to him , he got more silence . Then he blocked me! Taurus in love with scorp on December 05, 2018: He is giving me silent treatment for over than one year. Though last week I text him about a minor accident he was very concerned . He broke up with me over text about a week and 3 days ago. He did not talk to me at all . 1. his job is very demanding and unable to come to see me so I am the one that goes and visits him. I guess it was probly #1 thow since his mom is in the hospital. He finally texted me this morning, I was starting to wonder if he was doing the #5 thing! Both should understand this and try and capitalize on the positives than the negatives. Long story short - i asked him whether he was seeing someone and he replied yes, but he only went out for one date only. At first my feelings got hurt and I was quiet. I must say sometimes we women tolerate too much nonsense. Then you can slowly start to open up and show your more sensitive side. He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. I have since been on a roller coaster ride and now haven't gotten a text or call for 6 weeks. You have to be very careful when lying to a Scorpio man because he is excellent at reading people and will probably know intuitively when you are lying to him. Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. He messaged me a few days later and told me he had messed up and couldnt stop thinking about it so could we hang out again. So I recently met a scorpio and we instantly had a spiritual, physical and emotional connection. I've recently broken up with a Scorpion man. It might seem like everything's fine when your Scorpio suddenly turns on you, leaving you feeling attacked for no reason. To be honest, I struggle with my inner feelings and thoughts regularly and, struggle to come to terms with them let alone trying to explain them. Well, the last thing I want is to be a stress to him. I waited a day to respond, and just said "hi." Your pup pushing you away can be a puzzling behavior and attempting to understand it can help you better care for your dog. Scorpio men who are in love want to hug you and hold you like you belong to them. He wants all your thoughts to be about him, even if he wont admit to it or consider you 'sticky'he derives deep pleasure form the mere idea that he may be dominating all of your thoughts. Rated all ups!! I was hurt because before we started dating he said he was in love with me and wanted to settle down have a family etc. Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. He has dropped off the face of the earth but yet when I do see him for a few minutes , he is great! But when I speak to him its just short answers. So basically breaking up with me. He does understand that it's not fare for him to expect me to read his mind and he is trying to work on it but he does slip back into that a lot. so yeah.. is he playing. 5 Reasons Why a Scorpio Man Withdraws. HELP!!!! If a Leo is pushing people away, its usually because they are truly afraid that they are going to be pushed away first, and this is how they reclaim their power. Being in Love is wonderful. Anytime I come from a well meaning place they can get so defensive. Anyway, before he explained why he didnt want to come to Christmas with me he just said (I like to stay in and do nothing) like I said my feelings got hurt and I was quiet maybe even a bit distant and cold. If he is a fit for you, your Scorpio will be upset that you are upset. This is extremely accurate for my male best friend who is a Scorpio! I dont like some things I think or say, be they fact or not. I understand it to a Point. I didn't take him serious. I just don't have time to waste. He explained he didnt want to do that until we were "OPEN" in front of his daughter about our seriousness. "You are mine" is the message you'll receive when you're in your Scorpio man's lovin' arms. Both times we have broken up it was under false pretenses. 13. He talked to my Mom and she adored him. I just had the longest three days of my life. demanding, all this good Things a Guy should have . Help!! 2. You have some work that you need to do on yourself. Stay calm. When you can determine no good reason to dislike someone, you will be stymied by the fact that you just dontclickwith the people that you so desperately want to. He's quite private though. Where there is a will, a Scorpio will always find a way. He ignored my calls and texts for days and finally when he did hey back to me he said he can't commit to anything.. Right now he hasn't responded three days so kind of concerned. That was only a month of knowing him. Its not that youd ever go totally out of your way to maliciously hurt another person, just that Virgos have a tendency to be super honest and up front and sometimes really blunt they care about people so deeply, and yet fear that their sometimes (unintentionally) insensitive ways could wreak havoc in the life of someone they love. That was a month ago. You push love away because you're too insecure to let anyone in. He wanted to see me then changed his mind.wth. Is he still in love with me? So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. I am a venus in scorpio and I can vouch for this. It may have to do with work or his family; you won't know until you ask him! I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. He will test your sexual compatibility. Again, as a Capricorn I am secretive and I didnt want it to be something all of our acquaintances knew about. It felt so perfect..like I just stumbled upon a soulmate. NEVER believe what people tell you, let them show you. I refuse to take tesponsibikitu for HIS emotionaly irresponsibility. Ruled by Mars, Scorpios are extremely motivated and driven when they put their mind to something they are interested in. Self-esteem tests. 9. Scorpio men, especially mad Scorpio men, should not be messed with, and when they do get upset, it is best to diffuse the situation the best you can rather than stoke the flames. Should i stay or should i go. I feel he did this because he was hurt because I shared my problems with others instead of going to him, I know he cares for me? This quality really shows up in a Scorpio's sense of humor which is usually dry and biting. usually he will reply with yes, love. then when i texted him if he arrived to his work, he said yes. Trust issue or what i dont know. They wait until they feel they have sufficient justification and then lash out. We did, 10 days after she left and it was like we had known each other for years. Would appreciate your advice. The want and need to succeed becomes your single-minded focus. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. Don't be pushy give him his space it's very important and if there is anything bothering just talk about it gently we listen probably because we understand ourselves better.some scorpios are terrified about relationships mainly because Scorpio always are in control of their emotions. If anyone is going through this; stop, drop and roll. Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. There are plenty of respectful, loyal, and honest folks born in Scorpio season, just as with any other sign. However, remember that astrology should be used as a tool to better understand your partner and your unique dynamic, not to define the relationship and its outcome. We rather cut ties then to cheat and if we do cheat you'll know why whether you say or not but rarely. And yes, Scorpio women are quite similar to us Scorpio men in many things. I have a way with words as being a Gemini and I am willing to sacrifice some of my freedom to be with this Scorpio. he's working, he is charming but he talk only about sex. Thats when it all came back to me he did the same thing when we dated the first time but not as adults we have not dated. Ive been crazy about a Scorpio since the day we first met. Number 1 tip. This is why Scorpios like to follow long-term partnerships, but also why the heart of their partners shakes when a covert affair arises. Then he explained everything and I was fine. He claims it was his fault, mainly due to withdrawing from depression, fear and self loathing. This gives Scorpio natives an innate push to seek personal growth on a soul level. I am NOT going to contact him. When a Leo pushes away someone they love they do so out of their own fears and insecurities. He has no time to see me so I can't get answers. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. Sometimes, there isnt a logical reason for this. Whether its a friendship or relationship or anything else, keeping others at an arms length is often a Taurus feeling afraid that they will be a poor influence, or at the very least, distract or discourage them from what they really want to accomplish in life. Ha,nice Guy. What is this man saying? I really think it's the arrogance and a Scorpio. There are definitely reasons why the Scorpio man stops communicating when you least expect it. 1 Top 5 Reasons Why Scorpio Man Withdraws From You. [7] I feel lime this would work really well but it's hard to get him to talk. Im 17 and the scorpio ive been talking to is 17 also. I just concluded that a woman has far too much control over my emotions. Our Connection felt pretty strong like two Magnets something strange was happening. I do this, and I can tell you it really ticks me off when I am creating space on purpose, and someone asks me what's wrong. The coin in your hands feels cold and distant as you toss it skillfully back and forth between your fingers. I don't always know how to express my feelings and say things no matter how good at communicating I am. He says back I like you too etc Then I said he was confusing me what did he want and he replies with its not going to workout. My boyfriend is a scorpio and I'm libra. Chapter 1: All bad things come to those who are just trying to go about their god damn day. Never get straight answers either. How do I navigate this relationship, because I do care deeply for him. They are not brave or fearless in some areas such as walking away from someone who adores them. This will help keep the relationship on track. It's important that you're truly remorseful when you apologize to them. Tell them how sincerely sorry you are for what you've done. while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. Apply insecticide around the windows, doors, and baseboards inside the house. During Mom's chemo and ups and downs, he was there for me any time of the day (he lives in Ireland and is 6 hours ahead) and I could call him at any time and he was there. What's holding you back guys? Not responding to my texts . The messages he sent me were slaughtering and he even threatened to put our rude conversations all over Facebook. He's not young, he should know I was a pissed female haha. Well for about a year he has changed. If he tells you he likes or lives you and then disappears, find someone else! Scorpio (October 24-November 22) . He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. He is very supportive and lovable and caring too. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. Lastly, no one can love a person who doesnt truly love themselves , and if you truly love yourself you will know how and on whom to spend your precious hours, reserve your emotions to your girlfriends , get to know a boy for who he really is before pouring your feelings out to him and feeling vulnerable. On that note we weren't even a couple so I have no idea why he has taken it to heart or what's going on. My bf is soo hot and heavy everyday and then goes off the grid for no more than 48 hrs every so often, and it is usually cuz he is genuinely busy. He talks to other girls to make you jealous. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. Here's where you'll be a maximizer, which can also lead to chronic dissatisfaction if you don't figure out when enough is enough. I said in my emails that I know he loves me too and that he broke up with me out of anger and he should think about it and let me know, but I havent heard from him yet. 4. He left his job for something else and he hasn't been the same since . I guess I have to stop being such a Libra (=. When a Scorpio man is done with you, they use your own fears against you. You have to be the one who cares less in the relationship. I don't want to tell him because he may think I'm just trying to get him back it really hurts feeling this way all alone. Seeing them in pain should hurt you, too. Spray up to a height of 1 foot (.3 yards) on the foundation wall. Very strange behavior from a man in his 40's. So, he didn't respond for a while but when he responded he said that I guess i am right that we are not for each other and he tried his best, that he is sad and disappointed, and that he wanted to be the person that I give my love to but he wishes me to find someone who will. This year, we finally met in person. He can't expect you to read his mind, but here's what he might be feelingand likely has been feeling for quite some time. He was the absolute gentleman, thoughtful and sweet, taking care of me for everything. Hi all, i m Scorpio woman n my partner is Scorpio too. The dog loves you, understands that you don't know any better, and tolerates your curious tugging. Well..I never thought i would anyway. I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. I am so glad to hear that everyone is having the same concerns. Tell him so. I will say he has the best heart and loves with all of it. The King At Playing Mind Games. Even ignoring a mutual friend. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters. Love yourself, have your own projects and passions in life and trust in God. The next morning he broke up with me via text. If you give him the room to flourish and aren't breathing down his neck all the time, he's going to become obsessed with you and your laid back nature. 3 He's not that serious. Keeping things simple and occasionally ducking out of the social scene is your best bet for beating stress. Cancer, you are so focused on your own flaws and shortcomings that you are completely convinced that they make you completely unlovable. I asked my scorpio guy if what he's feeling towards me and he said he doesn't know. Does liking means close to loving? So now it's been a bit over 2 weeks and I haven't heard from him, but I have been emailing him all the time and I know everyone said that I should ignore him. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . January Nelson is a writer, editor, and dreamer. Answer: Scorpio-Scorpio needs a little compromise when it comes to love. It makes them feel like they are not important enough to hear what you have to say about how you feel. Complex for sure, but no more so than any other sign. Just because he doesn't tell you when you have hurt or upset him doesn't mean you haven't. They don't talk about feelings which leaves us to wonder what they think and where their at and if they are gone for good. I think we just do it meaning the love stuff because we love you so much but we get scared to tell you that because we don't know if you really love us too?? My Mom passed March 31 and I wouldn't have been able to make it if it weren't for him. As a fixed water sign, Scorpios are known for their loyalty and devotion and also their passion. Luckily, I can help you figure things out a bit more. You never know what could come next but I'm sure you'll be surprised with what he can come up with. We love each other so much, there is such Trust between us. There are a few reasons why someone might push away someone they care for. Then I explained I do like him but it seemed he made up his mind. If he still doesn't answer, he isn't worth your time anyway. My friends think I should get an abortion to save myself the heart ache but I could never do that! KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 17, 2012: I have been hub browsing and it seems that a lot of people are having trouble with their scorpios. Let him know that you are aware of what is going on calmly, and wait for his reaction to determine how to proceed. Then we didn't talk much about what happened except I had asked him if he's testing me subconsciously and he said that maybe but he's not sure. In astrology, there are several complex methods of determining compatibility beyond sun signs. i asked him if ive done anything wrong he said that hE is just busy at work but im getting paranoid coZ he is not acting usual.im getting crazy now.. :(. However, they shy away from people when they recognize that they only want to be with them to prove a point or enact revenge or look cool. Scorpios wont commit to someone they dont truly and completely love for the right reasons and youll be surprised to know that underneath all the harsh exterior, theres a very honest and true heart that wouldnt ever hurt another person for their own gain. Fear Hits Him Fast. I've been dating a scorpio man for 3 months. I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! He seemed to get a lot closer to me the following days and was texting me a lot, but then he went distant again. he disappeared but after some time he texted me saying 'I'm sorting my thoughts out because this feels brutal and chaotic' which sounded so childish to me. it don't take just a few seconds to text someone and say good morning and how is your day. He just wants me to already know why he's upset. Spray basements, garages, and closets with insecticide. They don't believe in eye for an eye. If you take out their eye, they'll kill you. But, he will suddenly disappear for a few days. And if you told a certain girl that you like her very much or that she's special, does it mean your'e developing feelings for her already? It's rather interesting to see that one of the most polarising zodiac signs has a flower that signifies happiness. To consider that a Leo, the sign known most for their unwavering self-confidence, could fear relationships because they actually question their own self-worth almost makes too much sense. I have a ton of gifts I have bought weeks before the break up for he, his daughter etc.. The Bug came to install a Walk in Shower. I'm not going to blow his phone up and beg for him to talk to me if that's what he thinks. Amy DeMarco from Chicago on July 30, 2012: I dated a Scorpio for about six months and your description here is pretty accurate. Hi im a scorpio female and i have this habit of disspearing for a few days when im going through all the above phases. Nothing serious well so he always said then one night about 3 weeks ago he messaged and asked if we could meet up I said yesthen I didn't hear from him so I assumed he had gotten busy so I just went to beddidn't think much of it. Sorry to say that but then and only then do you get treated the best. And I can do this over a protracted period of time such as few years. Scorpions are complex creatures that are primarily focused on survival. :). People that get deep into head games need emotional control over someone. Touch is a big way a Scorpio man expresses his love. I haven't called to see what's happening etc I'm just going to go do my own thing and let him be. A Scorpio man might be concerned that his facial expressions would reveal him. This article will provide a crash course on your crush. He is pure magnificence. Someone who is with me can never see it coming. I'm dealing with a Scorpio who says he loves me after 2 weeks of knowing him and has literally poured out his heart to me to only stop telling me these things weeks later. He tells me im the one but when he starts getting tired he gives me confidence and reassurence with words that don't feel like a lie. We r used to flirting a lot, admit we like eachother but he has a girlfriend -- one that treats him awful and he knows it. Him and I were only in a friend's with benefits thing for over a year. Scorpios are go-getters, and they rarely give up on anything they want to achieve. The only sure way to win a bullfight is not . If i do , i fear he may not trust me anymore. He does not show me his emotions , just during our fights says i care about you , i think about you , do not leave me & etc . He usually texts me every day but a few days ago he disappeared when he said he was frustrated . He was super into me, to the point where he was almost stalking me (exactly what u mentioned above) although i really didn't mind.

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